Many of us are not going to have the kind of Christmas we're used to. Money is tight. We're unemployed or under-employed. Bank accounts are diminishing and our retirement accounts are dissipating.
The good thing about a year like this is that it gives us a great opportunity to stop and focus on what is important during this Christmas season. Here at The Sanctuary, we are taking kind of a different look at Christmas in the next few weeks.
I am encouraging all of us to focus in on what is important. We all know the story of Jesus coming to be born in a stable and being worshiped by shepherds and wise men. One of my hopes is that in this interlude of our study in Romans, we will look at the Christmas story against the backdrop of what we have learned in Romans.
"Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom we have gained access by faith into this grace in which we now stand." Romans 5:1-2
But I digress...
Since this is the season of giving, it may be a good thing to think about giving in a different way. The day after Christmas, the wrapping paper will be in the trash bin, the bows and ribbons may be packed away for re-use next year, and the boxes will be stowed as well. Some of the gifts will have already been returned by then, and there's a good chance that some of the toys will be put aside or even broken.
The gifts we typically give and receive are often enjoyed for the moment, but at some point later on they are forgotten or worn out or broken.
So what to give? How about a gift that has eternal value? We talked this morning about blessing your children and loved ones, not just on Christmas but throughout the year. Consider doing that! You'll be putting things into them that will last a lifetime.
But also, maybe this is the time to really establish what your Family Values are. I suggested some this morning and encourage you to sit down and talk about it as a family. Maybe you could even post them somewhere in the house for easy reference. During this Christmas season, having this kind of a "family meeting" could be a time of bonding and closeness that can bring satisfaction in a way that no purchased gift could.
This is gift you give to your children. It is wrapped in love, tied up with integrity, and presented with a promise. Try it! The rewards will be on-going.
So just to remind you of the Family Values that I suggested this morning, here they are. Revise them or use them as is.
Family ValuesAs a family...- we love, follow, and obey God.
- we stand up for right against wrong and despise injustice.
- we have a sense of responsibility and we fulfill our obligations.
- we admit when we're wrong and accept the consequences.
- we respect others, including those in authority.
- we value family.
- we have a responsibility to save money, spend money wisely and give money away generously, all as God leads.
- we value the worth of each individual, including ourselves.
- we work hard and do our best.
- we believe that with God's help we can accomplish anything God calls us to do.
What if each and every family were to spend time this Christmas and in the year ahead talking about and reinforcing values such as these? How would it change your family? Your community? Your church?
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